The Hot-Cold Empathy Gap - Getting Around it to Reach Your Goals
Scott Miker
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Using systems and habits to improve your life is a proven method to succeed. It requires seeing the work as a system and then adjusting your thoughts and behaviors to be able to take advantage of your opportunities in life.
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Read MoreWe come across default settings all the time. Have you ever stopped to think about how those default settings actually influence our decisions? Default settings are like habits and can be very powerful if left unchecked.
Read MoreChange is all around us. If we better understand revolutionary and evolutionary change we can use them to make improvements in our lives.
Read MoreResearch shows that visualization alone doesn't help us to reach our goals. But the research is clear that using a technique called implementation intention can significantly improve success rate.
Read MoreWill increased stress cause us to revert to our habits and routines or will it cause us to abandoned them? Research has shown that there is a relationship between stress and habits.
Read MoreOnly you can decide what direction to go. Others will continue to try and influence you based on their goals. This may align with your goals or it may not. The only way to truly avoid their influence is to gain control of the systems and habits in your life.
Read MoreOur mind is constantly looking for repetition and patterns. Then it can use the same exact behavior next time it thinks the pattern is repeating. This is often done without our conscious effort or even our comprehension that it is occurring.
Read MoreThe systems and habits in our lives are powerful. In order to use this power to transform your life, you have to be able to evaluate and adjust your routines to align with where you want to go.
Read MoreThere is an incredible flaw in the way humans think. Our brains function in a way where we naturally look for cause and effect, before and after, start and finish, pre and post, beginning and end. We think linearly.
Read MoreI have learned that the only way to truly see improvement is to focus 100% on changing our systems and habits. The systems and habits in our lives take control of our routines until they are so automatic that we do them automatically. Trying to change this isn’t as easy and quick as the products’ marketing and advertising claims.
Read MoreOur habits form as we repeat behaviors, actions, and thoughts. This means that positive or negative, habits will form when you make the same choices and decisions over and over again.
Read More“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” Buddha
Read MoreLooking back I now understand that this is a very common storyline for people. Knowing what to do is not directly related to actually doing it! Put another way, common sense and common behavior are often miles apart.
Read MoreGetting back to positive systems and habits after a break may seem impossible. What it really takes is a shift in perspective.
Read MoreIt has long been known that there are advantages in disadvantage but too often we tend to focus on the limiting factors and not the potential benefits.
Read MoreEverything we do follows a set pattern that we typically don’t recognize. The way we go through our day, the way we meet a stranger, the we we interact with our various social networks all stem from habits. We don’t act uniquely each time we meet someone. Actually we will tend to act in a very similar way each time.
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The best way to succeed isn't to set a goal and focus solely on the effort needed to reach that goal. A better way is to focus on continual improvement by building the rights habits and systems in our lives.
Read MoreWhat most of us fail to grasp is the incredible power the habits in our lives have over us. If you want to know what someone will be like in 10 years, just look at their current habits. Todays habits determine tomorrow’s version of us.
Read MoreLearn how to build a system that focuses on consistent action and simplicity to reach your goals.
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